don't understand
No offense to all boys. But why do most of you have to be such big jerks? I don't get it. Lastnight, I was talking to two guy friends of mine and they just lost it on me. Their girlfriends had broken up with them for the same reasons and they got angry at me for it? I'm sorry, was I the one that broke up with them? They were telling me how all girls are the same and they're all jerks. They were being such jerks to me, just because I'm a girl. I'm a girl and I'm proud of it!
The reason their girlfriends broke up with them was because they said they were too clingy. So, I tried to share with guy number one about a relationship I had with guy number two and how he seemed clingy in the relationship. I used that example to share my experiences and how I learned from the situation. From the situation I learned that if a girl or a guy is being too clingy, sometimes they have to back off and let the guy or girl come to them. Sort of like playing hard to get, so in that case, the girl or guy you're dating won't think you're too clingy. Sometimes both are clingy in the relationship, so it balances out. Then, guy number two started talking to me and saying I was spreading rumors about him because I told guy number one how I thought he seemed clingy in the relationship I had with him. It was like a bomb was dropped and I was to blame for it. He called me a hipocrite and wouldn't stop telling me how mean I am. Both guy number one and guy number two started pouring all of their anger on me and getting angry at me like I was their ex girlfriends. Guy number one kept on telling me how all girls are the same. I really don't think they are. In all of my past relationships, I've learned to take all of the relationships and see what I learned from all of them. God uses every one of my past relationships to teach me something new. It's pretty awesome. It changes how I act in new relationships.
I was simply sharing what I had learned with guy number two to guy number one and guy number two viewed it as me spreading rumors and mean and a hipocrite. It really upsetted me a lot. Something I didn't like at all was how guy number two was bringing up my last relationship and things just haven't been good with that. Guys can be such jerks. (I know, not all guys!) It seems that the guys who I've recently been talking to or wanting to talk are doing nothing, but making me think I'm a mean person and not cared about. I don't think I'm a mean person and I know I'm cared about. Why do guys have to bring me down though? To inform them, it doesn't work. I don't get brought down easily. Haha.
2 Cor. 1:4 "He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When others are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us."
The reason their girlfriends broke up with them was because they said they were too clingy. So, I tried to share with guy number one about a relationship I had with guy number two and how he seemed clingy in the relationship. I used that example to share my experiences and how I learned from the situation. From the situation I learned that if a girl or a guy is being too clingy, sometimes they have to back off and let the guy or girl come to them. Sort of like playing hard to get, so in that case, the girl or guy you're dating won't think you're too clingy. Sometimes both are clingy in the relationship, so it balances out. Then, guy number two started talking to me and saying I was spreading rumors about him because I told guy number one how I thought he seemed clingy in the relationship I had with him. It was like a bomb was dropped and I was to blame for it. He called me a hipocrite and wouldn't stop telling me how mean I am. Both guy number one and guy number two started pouring all of their anger on me and getting angry at me like I was their ex girlfriends. Guy number one kept on telling me how all girls are the same. I really don't think they are. In all of my past relationships, I've learned to take all of the relationships and see what I learned from all of them. God uses every one of my past relationships to teach me something new. It's pretty awesome. It changes how I act in new relationships.
I was simply sharing what I had learned with guy number two to guy number one and guy number two viewed it as me spreading rumors and mean and a hipocrite. It really upsetted me a lot. Something I didn't like at all was how guy number two was bringing up my last relationship and things just haven't been good with that. Guys can be such jerks. (I know, not all guys!) It seems that the guys who I've recently been talking to or wanting to talk are doing nothing, but making me think I'm a mean person and not cared about. I don't think I'm a mean person and I know I'm cared about. Why do guys have to bring me down though? To inform them, it doesn't work. I don't get brought down easily. Haha.
2 Cor. 1:4 "He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When others are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us."
posted by michelleesexton @ 7:47 PM
7 Comments:
At 1:51 PM, October 21, 2005,
Mandy said…
I enjoyed our little talk yesterday darling, call me whenever, cuz I'm here for you!
At 7:39 AM, October 22, 2005,
bethmarie said…
I dunno if i'm the only one, but it took til today for me to be able to read the post and not just the title..
Boys are butts. Glad you see it's not all of them though. It's true girls can suck but you rock. so there.
At 7:16 PM, October 23, 2005,
J-Penny said…
I love you and think you're gorgeous and want you to know that Jesus loves you and that you are special. And so is Cheryl... specially since you guys look alike.. kinda...
I see you're drinking 1%. Is that 'cause you think you're fat? 'Cause you're not. You could be drinking whole if you wanted to.
Well, when I came home from school my head started to get really hot. So I drank some cold water, but it didn't do nothing. So I laid in the bathtub for a while, but then I realized that it was my hair that was making my head hot. So I went into my kitchen and I shaved it all off. I don't want anyone to see.
I could wrap you in some foam, or something billowy?
Last week, Japanese scientists explaced... placed explosive detonators at the bottom of Lake Loch Ness to blow Nessie out of the water. Sir Godfrey of the Nessie Alliance summoned the help of Scotland's local wizards to cast a protective spell over the lake and its local residents and all those who seek for the peaceful existence of our underwater ally.
At 7:24 PM, October 23, 2005,
J-Penny said…
hypocrite
At 9:13 AM, October 24, 2005,
Justin said…
well. not offended by you calling most guys jerks. we really are...but not all are...which is fortunate for the females of this country....
At 2:05 PM, October 24, 2005,
bethmarie said…
whose a hypocrite?
At 7:05 PM, October 24, 2005,
J-Penny said…
no one...
hipocrite != hypocrite
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